Our Children Deserve a Voice in Healthcare Reform
Posted June 3rd, 2009 by Dede DankelsonWhen it comes to healthcare reform, I want to make sure that legislators consider what is important to families, especially those like mine that have a child with special medical needs. When I think of healthcare reform for my family certain elements come to mind: access, choice, quality, and coverage.
Choice is particularly important to me because my oldest son, Peter, is followed by at least eight different pediatric specialists. I want to choose the doctor that is part of his medical team. I also want to base that decision on the physician’s experience level and quality of care, not whether that doctor is accessible through an insurance network. If a second or third opinion is needed, I want to seek that opinion unencumbered.
Peter qualifies for our state’s CHIP program based on medical need, and he has private insurance through my husband. We pay annual premiums for both policies but still incur thousands of dollars in out-of-pocket expenses due to high deductibles and lack of coverage for things like prosthetics, prescriptions, and medical equipment. We pay, for example, out-of-pocket for Peter’s prosthetic ear.
The anaplastologist we choose to make Peter’s ear does not participate with any private or state insurance networks. Consequently, the state will not pay for any portion of the prosthetic and our private insurance, although offering partial coverage, applies the amount toward our out-of-network deductible. I challenge anyone reading this to locate an in-network provider for an ear prosthetic! Sadly, the most disturbing issue to me is not the coverage but the choice. If we, instead, would choose for Peter to have ear reconstruction surgery both policies would likely cover 100% of the cost because we would use an in-network and in-state provider.
From a purely business standpoint this makes no sense as the multiple surgeries required for ear reconstruction would easily total more than the prosthetic. Also, the trauma and pain resulting from 4-6 surgeries for what would likely be mediocre results, is an option that I am not willing to choose no matter what the cost. In Peter’s case, the ear is not purely cosmetic as it serves the function of holding up his glasses, thus, it is medically necessary. The social benefit, I think most would agree, is quite obvious.
Choice, therefore, is an essential element for consideration in children’s healthcare reform. As parents, we must be able to choose the best providers for our kids, not based on a price but instead based on our decision making and level of comfort. We must be able to choose who makes a diagnosis, who performs a surgery, who prescribes and manages medications, where our kids receive therapy, and where our kids receive physicals and vaccinations. We must be allowed to make these decisions without bureaucracy and policies dictating the choice for us and for our kids.
Because choice in pediatric healthcare matters so much to me, I have chosen to participate in the national “Speak Now for Kids in Health Reform” campaign. This campaign is led by the National Association of Children’s Hospitals and other pediatric groups that believe children’s issues must be addressed in healthcare reform. There is a real risk that children’s needs could get crowded out by adult concerns since they represent just 10 percent of healthcare spending and only 25 percent of the population. From where I sit children are 100 percent of the future, and we would be foolish to change healthcare without considering their needs.
Please join me to promote the needs of children as legislators negotiate healthcare reform. Visit www.speaknowforkids.org to show your support and share your story.




5 Comments
Well spoken Dede. What a shame all the hoops you have to jump through! I deal with that with my daughter Skylar all the time. Always seem to fall through the cracks and then she suffers. I think the insurance companies go for whatever suits them best. For example Skylar is on a Fentanyl patch for pain. This is the generic form of the brand name. However Skylar was dropped by one of her insurance companies and now the other one taking over will only ‘pay’ for the brand name which cost $110.00 more a month then generic. Does that make sense? We called all over and couldn’t even find the brand because everyone prefers generic. We finally found it and our pharmacy no carries it for her but it is beyond me why did this and what’s in it for them? Then you deal with a thyroid med and they will only pay for the generic and not brand which is a much cheaper drug. I’ve shook my head so much over the last few years. Something needs to be done to regulate this and make it easier for us parents who deal with special needs children, isn’t that hard enough?
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June 11, 2009 at 2:56 pm by Darryl HicksAs the father of a 4 year old born at 33 weeks with a host of medical needs, “Downs” being the least of these, I hear Dede, loud and clear. There should be a forum calling for “exceptions” to the rules to be reviewed. If a case can be made for the prosthetic that includes why the patient’s wants and (better yet) needs, actually cost less, then to heck with the rules. Make new ones! Rules are there to ensure fairness & safety. “Not Just Because!” Insurance and state funds unavailable to our family to buy Pulse/Ox probes in the quantity needed, if provided, would cost less than that currently used for the tons of medical supplies we do get, but would be able to forgo. I know how our policy makers can make our coverage cost less. But will they listen?
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June 4, 2009 at 9:26 pm by Jocelyn GuyerThanks so much for sharing your story. The case you make for choice is deeply compelling and to my mind, who could argue, I mean really? You are doing the very best for your son and health coverage should support your efforts whenever possible, not throw up road blocks. Thanks again for sharing your experience.
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Suzanne Klug Reply:
June 5th, 2009 at 6:04 am
Dede I’m a freind of your mothers. She has been my angel in life during a greif period. She kept me updated on Peter for a long time.
I’m so proud of you for your voice for the children who need help. They are our future and we need to do all we can to fight that fight for them. Keep speakin for the kids, your awesome.
Sue Klug
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I am Peter’s grandma and have supported my daughter Dede and her husband Darin as they have stuggled to be heard as paretns of a special needs child like Peter.
No parent should have to make choices on a doctor just because it is in the network when there is another doctor who specializes more in their childs needs.
I agree with my daughter that they have made the right choice with the prosthetic ear for Peter. It just does not make sense that the insurance will not cover the ear as she stated it is a medical issue to keep his glasses on.
I am so proud of my daughter and her husband for what a great job they have done with Peter. He is a truly a blessing to all of us.
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