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    Balance is Impossible?

    Posted May 10th, 2010 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    “A balanced life is often ridiculed as impossible–a goal that many have abandoned because it makes us mere mortals feel bad when we can’t achieve it.” This is the opening line from chapter 3 in our book, Equally Shared Parenting. It is an acknowledgement to the common media perspective that the pursuit of balance is [...]

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    Mom, Dad and Money

    Posted February 21st, 2010 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    There has been a lot of buzz lately about the latest Pew Research Center results on men, women, and earnings. The big news is that the number of heterosexual couples in which the woman outearns the man has leapt from a mere 4% in 1970 to 22% in 2007. Historically, this is big news. Sure, [...]

    How to Fairly Share the Chores by Getting Past What’s “Fair”

    Posted February 15th, 2010 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    How many times have you read about, or listened to, complaints that women do more around the house?  In blogs and news pieces and books, in our neighborhoods and playdate circles, at work and at the park, moms are pissed about, or hopelessly resigned to, their unfair burdens.  Statistics are bantered about and analyzed in [...]

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    The Silver Lining in Tag-Team Parenting

    Posted May 21st, 2009 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    Very interesting column in the Wall Street Journal this week by work/family journalist, Sue Shellenbarger. It profiles a few families that have cut back on outside childcare to save money in tough economic times, and have put a kind of equally shared parenting in place. I say ‘a kind of ESP’ because these families have [...]

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    Equally Shared Parenting in the NY Times

    Posted June 17th, 2008 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    As some of you may know, we were profiled in this past Sunday’s New York Times Magazine in a piece by Lisa Belkin entitled When Mom and Dad Share It All.

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    With Opened Eyes

    Posted April 15th, 2008 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    This blog entry is written by Amy only. While Marc hung out with our kids, I chose last week to attend a summit meeting offered by a national coalition called the Campaign For A Commercial-Free Childhood (CCFC). I had no idea what I’d be hearing, or whether I’d be spending two precious days of free time on a worthy endeavor.

    Creating Equality-by-Politics?

    Posted March 21st, 2008 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    “It is not possession of a womb that now holds women back, but its use.” That’s a line from a brilliant article published earlier this week in the British magazine New Statesman. As journalist Richard Reeves explains, in Britain the pay gap between men and women is virtually gone, until they become parents.

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    How NOT to Get Your Husband to ‘Help’ Around the House

    Posted January 10th, 2008 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    The American public, at least the part consisting of parents, is obsessed with measuring how much housework is done by women versus men. Statistics about men’s increasing involvement at home clog the blogosphere and newspaper columns– followed by discussion of how much MORE women still do. Many women would love to find a way to get more help from their husbands to even the load.

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    Getting on the Flexibility Train

    Posted December 12th, 2007 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    Exciting news from the US House of Representatives: a bill has been introduced by Senator Edward Kennedy and Representative Carolyn Maloney that mirrors flexibility laws in place in several European countries.

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    Policies that Work

    Posted November 29th, 2007 by Marc and Amy Vachon

    The Organisation for Economic Co-Operation and Development (OECD) has released a new report comparing the policies of 30 countries with respect to work/life balance.

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